Turn your attention.
To what you really want your life to be about.
And start to build smaller and smaller patterns of committed action.
Toward what you want your life to be about.
Yes, no matter how careful you are, it is fairly likely you will experience one or more traumatic experiences in your lifetime.
And yes, life will be asking you the same question over and over again across different situations and times.
But are you not willing to do what needs to be done?
To create a life you want.
Step at a time.